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I find it irritating when I'm using a dating site like Tinder, Ok Cupid, whatever and I stumble across a "woman" only to realize that it's a man that has transitioned or (in most cases) is in the process of transitioning to become a woman.
Last counterpoint is, why should a trans person have to put that they are trans on their profile rather than you putting on yours that you don’t date trans people? Gender is a pretty big deal, the genders you're interested in are typically one of the first questions a dating site asks you.
That differs by person, so where do we draw the line feasibly?
Do we make every person upload a detailed profile of everything that someone might care about in a prospective partner and make the results endlessly searchable? As for feeling that trans people owe it to make it known that they are trans from the jump, I don’t agree that they should be obligated to do that.
I agree that it would be excessive to try and account for every physical & mental variation and account for them, but the fact that we don't need to account for doesn't mean we should account for nothing.
By that logic, we should have no filters at all - and you should just see everyone with no filters at all, which would be a miserable user experience no one would use.
I don't want to debate the legitimacy of transgenderism as that's not what I'm here about and my opinions are not likely to change in that regard.