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Many of the women who don't have profile pics are also very good-looking (granted some are not), but from their body types and weights listed in their profiles you can at least choose ones with a body type you like without having to see their photographs.
Targeting women without profile pictures has been the real key to success on Adult XXX Date for me.
Also state your fantasies and really emphasize the fact that you're a generous lover (even if you're not).
State that you love to give women pleasure, and don't be afraid to brag about the fact that you've always been complimented on your technique, even if you haven't!
So I e-mailed them again, trying not to sound too pushy or desperate, and I eventually got a reply from one of them, but she told me that she had just hooked up with someone else and so she wasn't interested any more.
At first I felt really disappointed by this, but then all that changed...
You see, the thing you have to realise (which I only eventually came to realise) is that the ratio of men to women on a site like this is probably about 10:1.
Great news if you're a woman looking for a guy, but not so great news if you are a guy!
So I signed up for free and started searching for women in my area.
My main profile picture was a picture of just my face showing me smiling - this immediately lets other women know that I have a happy, friendly, outgoing personality and somehow seems to imply that I'm not an axe murderer! But you need to let women know this, and a smile seems to do the trick!
My other photos that I uploaded were of my body (I didn't post any shots of my penis - as most men seem to like to do - as I thought I'd leave something to the imagination! Now I'm not a fat guy, but I'm hardly Arnold Schawrzengger or Jean Claude Van Damme either if you know what I mean, so I found that taking black and white shots of my body really emphasized the shadows around my pecs and biceps more and made me look a lot more muscular than I was, which looked nice!
So a month's subscription to a site that was packed with women who are quite literally gagging for it seemed like money well spent to me!
After I signed up, I started e-mailing some of the gorgeous babes who had been winking at me, but I got no reply.